naomi and micah ask if we can have “family out out time”…we thought that was them mimicking eliza saying “outside time”…turns out it is when we are outside as a family all playing a common game…that is family out out time…a walk doesn’t count, gardening doesn’t count…but “combine” (jerry holding the old crib mattress chasing the kids around the yard) and basketball do…and the best thing is that the big kids usually don’t fight during it….ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.